{"id":10600,"date":"2022-07-27T21:17:20","date_gmt":"2022-07-28T01:17:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/?p=10600"},"modified":"2022-07-27T21:17:20","modified_gmt":"2022-07-28T01:17:20","slug":"a-recipe-for-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/2022\/07\/27\/a-recipe-for-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"A Recipe for Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-10616 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.43.22-AM-1024x655.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"745\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.43.22-AM-1024x655.png 1024w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.43.22-AM-300x192.png 300w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.43.22-AM-768x491.png 768w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.43.22-AM.png 1098w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 745px) 100vw, 745px\" \/><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>As if<\/em> I need an excuse to get together with my friends, August 1<sup>st<\/sup> is National Girlfriend\u2019s Day. I really value my girlfriends and we try to connect pretty often. We\u2019re good about celebrating each other\u2019s special gifts, important events and are supportive during challenging times. My hubby says he feels the same about his guy friends.<\/p>\n<p>I have a few really close female friends. I can tell them anything. My own personal girl-squad. They\u2019re the ones I talk to all the time, vent about something silly or serious, ask their advice and laugh\/cry about life. Plus, they tell me the hard truth! I, also, have lots of other friends that I really value. I have groups of friends like moms of my kids\u2019 friends, wives of my husband\u2019s high school buddies, the women I work with, my college girlfriends and so on. As much as I value and rely on my closest friends, I have realized all my other female friends are really important to me too. I want to make more time to get together with them outside of work, school, sports sidelines etc&#8230;<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10610 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-21-at-3.58.34-PM.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"413\" height=\"474\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-21-at-3.58.34-PM.png 413w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-21-at-3.58.34-PM-261x300.png 261w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 413px) 100vw, 413px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/society\/2018\/may\/23\/the-friend-effect-why-the-secret-of-health-and-happiness-is-surprisingly-simple#:~:text=The%20study%20also%20found%20that,who%20eat%20together%20are%20happier.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Studies confirm<\/a> that family and friend relationships are important to overall health and happiness. As we age, our friendships become even more important. Plus, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/bonniemarcus\/2021\/02\/02\/hanging-with-your-girlfriends-helps-you-live-longer-and-happier\/?sh=51dafd0d6973\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">studies show<\/a> the act of socializing with our girlfriends improves\u00a0 our health and happiness. Children who develop relationships and friendships tend to be happier adults. And our children learn by example. My daughters are growing up watching me spend time with my female friends just as I encourage them to develop lasting relationships with other girls. Teaching them to value honest, loyal, non-judgmental, open and supportive girls gives me great joy.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ox.ac.uk\/news\/2017-03-16-social-eating-connects-communities\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">studies show<\/a> sharing a meal with friends helps people feel better about themselves, plus they tend to develop wider social and emotional support networks. This isn\u2019t surprising data. Connecting in person and sharing a meal increases endorphins, almost as much as sex and exercise! Eating often <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthline.com\/health\/womens-health\/benefits-of-a-girlsquad-and-female-friendships\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">with others<\/a> helps us feel more connected and at ease in our personal relationships, and for women, feel more nurtured. Those who eat socially find it easier to trust others and engage in their community. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/shelleyzalis\/2019\/03\/06\/power-of-the-pack-women-who-support-women-are-more-successful\/?sh=41adfaed1771\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bonds of friendship<\/a> are definitely worth celebrating!<\/p>\n<p>Eating together with friends doesn\u2019t mean spending a lot of money. In fact, simple is better, with less stress. The more often I entertain, the more comfortable I&#8217;ve become and the more likely I am to invite &#8220;the girls&#8221; for dinner.<\/p>\n<h2>Make It Easy<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Don\u2019t Sweat The Dirt: <\/strong><\/span>Sure, I\u2019ve noticed a cobweb or two at someone else\u2019s house, but I didn\u2019t judge them for it. In fact, I felt more relaxed that they won\u2019t judge me by the inevitable cobwebs in my old house! No one came to my home to judge how spic and span the house is; they came for the company, a meal and lots of laughs. The more I realized no one is worried that the dog left a dirty paw print on the rug, the more likely I was to invite friends over.<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-10614 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.37.58-AM.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"318\" height=\"468\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.37.58-AM.png 372w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-22-at-9.37.58-AM-204x300.png 204w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 318px) 100vw, 318px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">Be Ready:<\/span><\/strong> Setting the table shouldn\u2019t be a big deal. I finally got smart about having the right \u201cstuff\u201d on hand to entertain. I don\u2019t need to use fancy plates every time. I keep napkins ready to go. My daughter taught me that using a napkin ring meant I didn\u2019t have to spend extra time ironing napkins perfectly. (She\u2019s smarter than me!) For summer\/outside entertaining, I keep everything ready to go on a tray. I have melamine plates, fun dishwasher safe flatware, plastic glasses, salt and pepper shakers and napkins. All of this goes in the wash or dishwasher. Easy peasy. The one thing I do like to do is add a centerpiece. It only takes a single bloom or even a vase of greens to make the table look fancy and pretty.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">Choose Easy Recipes:<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 NO ONE and I mean NO ONE has ever said you have to serve hard-to-make recipes. I like to make tried and true recipes that I know are delicious. This reduces my stress immensely.<a href=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/2022\/06\/08\/10-best-tips-for-the-most-flavorful-burgers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Burgers<\/a> and hotdogs on the grill are as equally appreciated as anything else I have ever served! If you make great <a href=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/2021\/12\/01\/lasagna-amore-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lasagna<\/a>, make extra and keep it in the freezer for impromptu parties. Find one of your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/plan\/favorites\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&#8220;Favorites&#8221;<\/a> in your<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/plan\/recipe-box\/chicken\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> DinnerTime Recipe Box<\/a> so you know it&#8217;ll be a winner! I find joy in preparing food. I make it with love and sharing it with my friends is a bonus.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Host A Pot-Luck Meal:<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0 I can tell you from experience, no one cares if it\u2019s a perfectly balanced meal. It\u2019s more about the company. If you are like me, let go of your over-controlling instincts by planning the main dish and asking others to bring something they want to make. Many times I have left a party with a new recipe from a dish I had never tried before.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">Don\u2019t Break The Bank:<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 If you think entertaining has to be expensive, give yourself a shake! My go-to summer dinner party menu is this<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/4836\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Italian Herb-Marinated Chicken,<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/2960\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Herbed Red Potato Salad<\/a> and whatever is in my garden, like green beans for a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/985\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Green Bean and Cherry Tomato Salad<\/a> or sliced tomatoes for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/4494\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Marinated Mozzarella Tomatoes<\/a>. Simple, economical and tasty! Almost always, my guests offer to bring something and I usually ask for dessert or an appetizer.<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-10634 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-25-at-10.50.22-AM.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"408\" height=\"151\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-25-at-10.50.22-AM.png 494w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Screen-Shot-2022-07-25-at-10.50.22-AM-300x111.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 408px) 100vw, 408px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Party-Friendly recipes!<\/h3>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0Search for more delightful recipes in your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/plan\/recipe-box\/summer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">DinnerTime Recipe Box<\/a>.<\/h5>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Use the filter function (found on right of your DinnerTime Recipe Box search) to find <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/plan\/recipe-box\/thanksgiving\/courses:dessert\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">desserts<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/plan\/recipe-box\/thanksgiving\/courses:main%20dish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">main dish<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/plan\/recipe-box\/thanksgiving\/courses:side%20dish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">side dishes<\/a>\u00a0etc.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"row\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/3696\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Grilled Salmon Summer Salad<\/a><\/h5>\n<h5 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h5>\n<p class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/1009\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sauteed Cherry Tomatoes<\/a><\/h5>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h5>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/4382\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Summer Fruit Tart<\/a><\/h5>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"row\">\n<div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/3696\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10625 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Grilled-Salmon-Summer-Salad.thumb_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Grilled-Salmon-Summer-Salad.thumb_.jpg 256w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Grilled-Salmon-Summer-Salad.thumb_-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0Lovely and delicious.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/1009\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10627 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/sauteed_tomatoes.thumb_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/sauteed_tomatoes.thumb_.jpg 256w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/sauteed_tomatoes.thumb_-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Quick, easy and oh so tasty!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/4382\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10629 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Summer_Fruit_Tart.thumb_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Summer_Fruit_Tart.thumb_.jpg 256w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Summer_Fruit_Tart.thumb_-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The perfect taste-of-summer dessert!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"col-sm-4\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As if I need an excuse to get together with my friends, August 1st is National Girlfriend\u2019s Day. I really value my girlfriends and we try to connect pretty often. 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