{"id":9506,"date":"2021-09-08T17:57:30","date_gmt":"2021-09-08T21:57:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/?p=9506"},"modified":"2021-09-08T17:57:30","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T21:57:30","slug":"come-together-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/2021\/09\/08\/come-together-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Come Together"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-7814 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/family-dinner-again.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"515\" height=\"343\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/family-dinner-again.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/family-dinner-again-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/family-dinner-again-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 515px) 100vw, 515px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-7792 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Screen-Shot-2020-09-01-at-4.55.22-PM-300x191.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"408\" height=\"260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Screen-Shot-2020-09-01-at-4.55.22-PM-300x191.png 300w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Screen-Shot-2020-09-01-at-4.55.22-PM.png 528w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 408px) 100vw, 408px\" \/>Once again, we start the school year a little differently than &#8220;normal&#8221;.\u00a0 Just like this time last year, we&#8217;re all learning to adjust and make the best out of our circumstances. It hasn&#8217;t always been easy. Check out some of<a href=\"https:\/\/www.digitalmomblog.com\/back-to-school-memes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> these memes<\/a> from social media that bring humor out of the craziness. We think they are hilarious (and we all need a laugh)<\/p>\n<p>The coronavirus pandemic is hard on everyone. <a href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/5870478\/children-mental-health-coronavirus\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Studies are showing<\/a> that children&#8217;s emotional health has been affected. Parents are constantly shifting with the demands of jobs and the needs of their families. \u00a0Financial pressures, concerns about each others\u2019 health, working from home, balancing work meetings, all while monitoring their children&#8217;s learning progress, are putting a strain on everyone. Sometimes it can feel isolating and overwhelming.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #008000;\">I like to focus on what I <em><u>can<\/u><\/em> control. <\/span><\/h4>\n<p>What can I do to make things feel as normal as possible? Keeping to a schedule helps my family feel secure and grounded. Whether my kids are going in different directions or if we&#8217;ve all been working\/schooling from home, dinner is the one reliable time we come together. <img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7801 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/keep-us-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/keep-us-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/keep-us-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/keep-us.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As a parent, I know there are the many reasons it\u2019s smart to gather around our dinner table. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3498594\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Studies show<\/a> children who eat dinner with their families do better in school, exhibit less risky behaviors, feel better about themselves and eat healthier. Right now, my focus is to help our family feel positive and connected.<\/p>\n<p>September is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fmi.org\/family-meals-movement\/about#:~:text=What%20is%20National%20Family%20Meals,social%20benefits%20of%20doing%20so.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">National Family Meals Month\u2122<\/a>, an effort to bring awareness of the importance of family meals. Every year we challenge our members to add just one more family meal a week. The good news is that studies show that since the pandemic started, 70% of families surveyed, say they are cooking more often. Half of the parents say they are involving their kids in cooking more often, and 55% of the families are eating with their children more regularly. More than 8 in 10 parents say it is important to eat at home together as a family and, those who miss dinners, in particular, say they are trying to eat with their child more.<\/p>\n<p>Kids want to spend time with their family (even the surly teenagers!). In 2019,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodnewsnetwork.org\/73-of-kids-want-to-spend-more-time-with-their-parents-and-here-are-20-things-they-want-to-do\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> 73% of kids surveyed<\/a>\u00a0say they value playing card games together, eating meals together and even doing homework together. Key word is <em><strong>together<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>The daily routines that you mindfully establish around dinner will help your family feel secure and together.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7804 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/nourish-well-being-with-outline-aug-2018-1-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/nourish-well-being-with-outline-aug-2018-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/nourish-well-being-with-outline-aug-2018-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/nourish-well-being-with-outline-aug-2018-1.jpg 350w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Make DinnerTime <em>Together<\/em>&#8211;<em>Time<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Plan meals:<\/strong><\/span> A sense of control and ownership is good for everyone. Plus, the more that kids are involved in the planning, the more likely they are to try new foods. Even adults will feel more positive about household chores if they share them. Studies also show, if you plan ahead, you will choose healthier foods which is important for both your physical and emotional wellbeing.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Edit the grocery list:<\/strong><\/span> This is a great opportunity to teach your kids about budgeting. Children will learn that not every snack item they want is affordable. Parents will feel less stress if everyone understands and sticks to the budget.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Prep the ingredients:<\/strong><\/span> Teach your children the importance of getting everything ready in advance so cooking the meal will be a breeze. Plus, it\u2019s a great opportunity to connect without anyone feeling like they&#8217;re getting the &#8220;third degree.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Cook:<\/strong><\/span> Kids may not realize it, but there is math and science involved! Bonus, following directions for a recipe is a key life skill. Teach your kids to first read all the way through the recipes before starting the cooking. Use the all-in-one recipe page for easy to follow directions. It&#8217;s very satisfying to cook a meal. Plus, the sense of independence achieved by knowing how to whip up a recipe is valuable for teens.<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7810 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/bring-fun-with-outline-aug-2018-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/bring-fun-with-outline-aug-2018-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/bring-fun-with-outline-aug-2018-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/bring-fun-with-outline-aug-2018-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/bring-fun-with-outline-aug-2018-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/bring-fun-with-outline-aug-2018.jpg 1201w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Set the table:<\/strong><\/span> This is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/content\/2019\/05\/09\/at-my-mothers-table\/\">an important<\/a> but easy task that even the youngest of children can help accomplish. It tells everyone dinner is coming soon.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">Clean up<\/span>:<\/strong><\/span> Sharing this responsibility is nice for the adults and teaches kids that a job isn\u2019t done until everything is done. (I can hear my father\u2019s voice!) Learning to work together as a team will help kids work with others to accomplish shared goals. Remember, conversation happens throughout the making of the meal through the clean up stage. You&#8217;ll never know what you may learn!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Extra Credit<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Dance:<\/strong><\/span> Put on some fun music that gets everyone moving. Kids love to see their goofy parents dance. Music can reset a mood in minutes. I like to put on music at the end of my workday. It helps me turn my attention to my family and signals it&#8217;s time to start making dinner. Prepping and cooking is more fun when I have dance music turned on. Smiles and laughter are a natural stress releaser.<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7830 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/no-brainer-with-outline-aug-2018-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/no-brainer-with-outline-aug-2018-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/no-brainer-with-outline-aug-2018-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/no-brainer-with-outline-aug-2018-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/no-brainer-with-outline-aug-2018-768x769.jpg 768w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/no-brainer-with-outline-aug-2018.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Connect:<\/strong><\/span> Engaging in <a href=\"https:\/\/redtri.com\/20-questions-to-ask-at-the-dinner-table\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">interesting and important discussions<\/a> at the dinner table is a skill children will use throughout their lives. Hearing from parents how they are navigating tough issues or collaborating as a family to resolve problems teaches children coping skills. Working as a family team to approach problems helps both children and parents feel more in control and supported.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong>Read:<\/strong><\/span> Pick a good book to read aloud during or after dinner. Some of my favorite memories are of my mom reading to us at dinnertime. My husband and I did the same when our children were young. It\u2019s calming and a really nice way to be together.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Recipes to make together!<\/h3>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">Find more delightful recipes in your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/plan\/recipe-box\/easy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">DinnerTime Recipe Box<\/a>.<\/h5>\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">You can search for an ingredient (e.g. eggplant, etc) the name or part of the name of a recipe (lasagna), a cuisine (Italian), type of dish (e.g. soup), an occasion (Thanksgiving, breakfast, tailgating, etc).<\/h5>\n<div class=\"row\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<h5 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/3034\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"s1\">Easy Oven-Fried Chicken Tenders<\/span><\/a><\/h5>\n<p class=\"p1\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<h5 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h5>\n<h5 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/1548\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"s1\">Grilled Spinach Alfredo Pizza<\/span><\/a><\/h5>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<h5 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/1784\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"s1\">Tuna Patty Burgers<\/span><\/a><\/h5>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"row\">\n<div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/3034\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-7817 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Easy_chicken_tenders.thumb_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Easy_chicken_tenders.thumb_.jpg 256w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Easy_chicken_tenders.thumb_-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The kids will love to help make these healthier tenders.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/1548\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-7819 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Grilled-Spinach-Alfredo-Pizza-59235.thumb_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Grilled-Spinach-Alfredo-Pizza-59235.thumb_.jpg 256w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Grilled-Spinach-Alfredo-Pizza-59235.thumb_-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Making this together is almost as great as eating it together!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><div class=\"col-sm-4\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dinnertime.com\/recipes\/1784\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-7821 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/tuna-burger-melt.thumb_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/tuna-burger-melt.thumb_.jpg 256w, https:\/\/wp2.dinnertime.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/tuna-burger-melt.thumb_-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 256px) 100vw, 256px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The kids will have fun making this tasty burger.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Once again, we start the school year a little differently than &#8220;normal&#8221;.\u00a0 Just like this time last year, we&#8217;re all learning to adjust and make the best out of our circumstances. 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